Meaning of Sex

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Mouyor Buttons and Joke (Cloud Spin), Photographed by Motolani Olorungbon

Different generation value sex differently, some can testify it’s overrated, while some will tell of how sacred it is, different meaning to different things in life, time is relative after-all. Sex is too; define it your way, just as we define our own truth.

The topic of sex will always be interesting and sentimental because it’s our truth, we’re trained to be protective of our truth else it will be used against us because that’s what humans do, they trained us to be ashamed of our truth too, because we’re more vulnerable that way, but as time changed, new confidence we discover, new values and way of life, what certain things mean to us, we’re the generation that love to do the dare, to the extreme, justifying the person we feel we are, it’s all branding and marketing, the life we live in this present time, you just have to brand yourself and define who you are, many came up with different pronoun, some stuck with the regular pronoun, so obvious we’ve move past the era that gave birth to us.

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Mouyor Buttons and Joke (Cloud Spin), Photographed by Motolani Olorungbon

Because we’ve move past that era certain things have to changed, the way of life and the meaning attached to some actions, like prostitution, the girls parade themselves back in the day on the street to entice men to pay for the sex they’re offering, even though the society could not out rightly stop them, it became accepted norm in the society, those are women bold enough to ask for sex in exchange for money, even the men walk up to them to ask for their sex and life was easy. If you’re not a professional prostitute you can’t be bold enough to ask for sex even if he’s your husband or boyfriend, we’re trained to be ashamed of things like that because they taught us that it paint a negative picture of who we are, but it’s ok for the men to ask for sex from their wives and girlfriend.

We all appreciate sex differently, as some can live without sex, some can’t, same thing applies to the women too, we are all sexual beings, just like the things that you want and can’t get, it frustrate and takes away your attention, same is a deprived body, when the body is deprived of sex, the mind goes astray and soon lost morals and sense of human, but not a reason for rape.

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Mouyor Buttons and Joke (Cloud Spin), Photographed by Motolani Olorungbon

Sex is not holy, so we’ve been taught, the feeling of sex is awesome, that you can’t deny, sex is shamed but the love the two people share during sex is joyous, the kiss and the smile, the appreciative look of the other persons’ body too. In most society it’s polite for the guys to ask for sex and impolite for the ladies to ask for it, but we all have sex and we all enjoy it, so what rule justify the men only to ask for sex and not the ladies to. Like Alicia Keys said, what if sex is holy? What if it’s the way of worship, just like we’re advised to be ourselves in the presence of the maker, what if we can make sex our expression of truth and won’t be shamed because we’re expressing the truth of us, asking for what we want, won’t that be polite enough?