Why We Love to Tell After Sex

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Beyonce Photographed by Tyler Mitchell

When it’s interesting we love to tell, the gist we love to share with the people we call friends. Nobody really want to listen to boring gist, everybody want to share lovely gist that will interest the people they’re telling it to. We have sex because it’s interesting, because it’s the best thing to do in that mood, following the lead of the body, maybe it’s been what we’ve crave, sex is meant to be interesting and not boring, boring sex kills and cause stress to the brain.

The body is a wonderful place with emotions, these emotions make us, they define who we are and why we love to do things the way we do, how we love to have sex. Just like writers, they imagine things into books, they imagine and create stories and characters that will interest readers, they try as much as possible to make it interesting the best way they can, so is sex, only us can make it interesting. Funny how it’s a reality that some women never will experience orgasm throughout their life time, that’s sad because experiencing orgasm is one of the best gift of life, one can’t really explain it, only if you experience it will you know the joy and satisfaction of it. Before sex the body generates a kind of energy that consumes.

Bodies attract and sex don’t just happens, just like before it happens in the physical it has happened in the spiritual, in our mind we’ve imagined it, even if it’s for a split second, the imagination of sex can even be more interesting than the sex, if you’re lucky enough that your partner understands the rhythm, it will be as interesting as you’ve imagined. When the body want sex or imagine sex it generate a kind of energy that consume every other reality, everything that now fills your thought and your mind is the body that you now lust after, that feeling is great especially when the crave is pure, of good intention, this energy many can’t really overcome until they satisfy the urge of the body, but the society made us think different.

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Beyonce Photographed by Tyler Mitchell

The idea of sex in many society is almost over rated, this generation will always be grateful for technology and inventions, dating apps and sex apps really has changed and prove some reality true, the reality of sometimes we just want the sex not the relationship, not as an act of disrespect or disregard but of respect and appreciation of the person, we are the society that was trained to appreciate what we want by owning, not all things can be owned just as it is that not all wins are wins, some wins are fails, so is owning too, it can go wrong sometimes, no wonder the divorce rate is on the steady rise, the society made us so. But sometimes all that’s needed is the short time appreciation but many get it wrong with the idea of ego, men believing having sex with women makes them powerful and women feel a man having sex with them is like he has reduce them to sex only and so they feel used because they feel they’re empowering the men over them, so they prefer you own them before you can have sex, before you truly mean you appreciate them and not just for the sex, so many lied and many got cheated and so we lost trust and good intentions. Sometimes the purest intention is in the thrill of the present, not the future or the past even, but the present because things change and people out grow people, weather change for God’s sake, even time and place, so is human beings, we grow and become somebody else, but the present is a gift, if truly explored can birth real and true feelings.

The things we do during sex we love to talk about, the fore play with the breast, fingers biting into the skin, the scream and moan, the dead eyes and the head we give, many love it, the fingering and the hand jobs too, the things we’ve thought about in private or even in the open with our friends when we talk lose and happy about our want, those things we want to experience and practice during sex we talk about and imagine. Though painful too that some partner won’t teach, we know ourselves better, we know our capacity and what we want, we understand our body better, the other person only believe he/she do, sometimes you want to go ballistic and other times slow and tender is what you want, maybe some part of pussy town you’ll want them to hit sometimes but they don’t know those avenues and close like you do, it’s your world, you know better so don’t be shy to teach and lead the way, it’s fulfilling when after sex you know you’ve satisfy your partner, it feels like cheating when only person experience orgasm. Many are shy during sex, though I still wonder why; we’re doing this I’ll always think in my mind, they thought us to be ashamed of our body, guess the revelation of the body is the cause, showing our intimacy and our truth.

The real truth of us we don’t share often because we’re usually scared we’ll be judge and most truth though people don’t believe anyways because they don’t believe it or expect it to be so, that’s why the truth is the best form of lie, so lie in truth, they’re shy to tell you how you can make you both enjoy sex time, shy of their body sometimes, maybe just for the first time, the society make us to be ashamed of our truth, so we feel betrayed when we know that our sex mate/lover is sharing our truth with his set of friends/other people because we feel we will be judged by our truth and the eyes and thought of these people will change about us, but it’s wrong thought sometimes, though sometimes it’s true but sharing the fun of sex is out of appreciation and love of the time spent together, sharing how wonderful you are and how special you are, gisting about the thrill of sex is the worth of how much we value that moment, how much that moment means to us. The voice one will remember, even how she breathes and the fullness of her breast, her wetness too and how she reacts to every pond.

We love sex, many people do, we all share the thrill of our sex, boys, girls, maybe some don’t, they keep it to themselves and they refuse to process the thrill because that’s what sharing does, it helps us process the thrill and analyze how much we appreciate the time and if we have to do it again, how will we better it or how we’ll want to experience that feeling again, recreating the moment in another time. Sharing is not disrespect, though some people disrespect with it, it’s not meant to be, it’s meant to be sharing of a beautiful and interesting story of love, lust and sex, the thrills with pure intentions.